Imagine if you will that you’re at a bar. Things are going incredibly well. You’ve opened a set, have isolated your target, and are physically escalating like a mother fucker. You feel like you can make out with the girl.
Should you?
There are a few different opinions on this in the community. Some people say to get the same night lay you should escalate until you are making out like two coked up monkeys propelling towards your place on a sexual energy rocket. Other people have said that making out in the venue is a cardinal sin and should be avoided at all costs. Fortunately, there is a little bit of truth to both statements.
First of all, there is nothing wrong with making out with women in the venue. Making out is a part of the sexual escalation ladder and should be tried in as many different locations as possible! It is a great way to experiment with differing levels of sexual tension and it is also just plain fun. If you want to make out with a girl then by all means do so wherever you can, and if you want to close at the venue, fooling around is pretty much 100% necessary. When I first got started I was perfectly happy getting a make out, and there is nothing wrong with that at all. The problems started once making out was no longer enough and I didn’t understand why it wasn’t getting me laid.
(As a side note, know that a few instructors I’ve talked to have ONLY had same night lays when they’ve made out with girls in bars)
Making out in the venue will not completely destroy your chances of taking a girl home. Big Business and many others have proved this time and time again. However, I started noticing patterns emerging when I would make out in the venue that were hard to ignore (because they were keeping me celibate). At times a woman’s anti-slut alarm will go off, other times the friends would flip out and block the cock, and other times I tried to bounce girls that I’d only built “make-out” levels of comfort with. It often wasn’t enough.
Conversely, when I held back the make out till I got into a sex location things worked like gangbusters. Things got so much easier when their friends didn’t feel like they had to protect them, or they weren’t worried about how their friends would view them, or about me having chloroform and bungee cord in the trunk of my car. CherryBomb, Radar, and Britzilla (my personal favorite) are perfect examples of SNL’s that would not have been possible had I not withheld the make out. What you want to do is respect the dance of ambiguity (let them have plausible deniability), operate under the radar of the friends, and show that you have at least a modicum of depth. You can achieve all these things very easily by avoiding the make out.
The problem with making out is that some men view it as a sex contract. They view the making out as evidence that they will for sure be getting laid that night, and that is simply not true. Some women will go out just to experience the quick thrill of making out with some guy in a bar, and have no intention of leaving with anyone. They finish their evening completely satisfied with having only fooled around a little. The sexual tension they were feeling at the start of the night is totally gone. Meanwhile you’ve got blue balls the size of watermelons.
So instead of being fooled by the make out, why not use the make out? If you get a girl riled up to where she thinks she’s gonna suck face and you don’t go in, what do you think happens to the sexual tension? (Hint: it doesn’t go down) When you invite her to another bar (or back to your place to check out the youtube video you were telling her about) and you haven’t gone in yet, part of the incentive for her to leave with you is that the make out could happen in that second location.
And if that second location is a place where you could escalate to sex, then your chances of closing just increased exponentially.
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