I think it would be acceptable to describe LoveSystems as a company that is dedicated to teaching men how to get women. I have personally been involved in hundreds of programs teaching thousands of men this very thing.
But for some men that’s not enough. For some men the very idea of expending EFFORT to get a woman is beyond the point. “Who wants to work for it?” I couldn’t agree more. I’m way to lazy to try and go out and get laid every…single…time…I want to have sex. Also, I’ve got other shit to do. Who has that many hours to spend just hooking up?
It is from here that I bring you a question directly from The Lounge (LoveSystems’ members only message board)
Many times when I take girls and text them they respond well. But the thing is that I always need to open the conversation, I dont care doing it the first times, but I know girls for a few months that never start texting me but when I text them first they get really social and never flakes.
What am I’m doing wrong?
Quick answer: nothing. This is just part of male/female dynamics. Men are the chasers. Men are the aggressors. Part of this is a woman’s desire to be chased, and part of it is a woman being attracted to the kind of guy who goes after what he wants.
Part of being masculine is having the attitude of “See. Want. Get.” This doesn’t mean go all cavemen and just started grabbing women off the street, but having the attitude of the pursuer is an attractive quality.
I understand the desire to have women chasing you and blowing up your phone without you doing any work, but that comes W ITH a little work. If you get your identity in check and start in the position of the pursuer, then back off a little sometimes they start coming after you.
Part of it is also adopting the attitude of someone who has women chasing him. Framing your stories with things like “this girl I met a few months ago texted me out of nowhere” or “My first girlfriend asked ME out. Some girls think that’s weird, but I love it when women put out that kind of effort” will make it seem like getting chased is something that you’re used to.
And finally, part of this comes from having an abundance. You’ll find that the more quality numbers you get, the more dates you’ll go on, and the less time you’ll have available for the women who want to see you. They sense that lack of desperation, that lack of availability, and they start putting in effort for your attention.